Here’s a Quick Way to Increase Her Attraction to You

09 February 2010
Posted in Attracting Women

Image courtesy of Mario EA

Sometimes its the little untouched things that make the biggest difference in attraction. One of those things happens to be encouraging independence.

Encouraging Independence

Around 90% of women need advice on becoming more independent, so why do men believe its a mistake to allow her to be independent, let alone encourage it?

Personally I believe it's down to a scarcity mentality of believing you won't get another chance or she's yours because you've worked hard thus far in obtaining her. Bad thinking. Instead its much more beneficial to encourage independence, especially if you've been talking to her a lot and say “Why don’t you go meet some guys or something?” or “That guy is checking you out; I think you could get him!”. Such a line will improve her attraction for you because its massively different from what other guys do. She'll be wondering why you'd want to 'get rid of her' as it were, and she'll come to the conclusion that you have many other options and she isn't your be all and end all.

Why she'll come back

Sometimes she'll take you up on your independence advice and chat to another man - attempting to test your confidence. All the time she'll be checking back at you to see whether or not your watching or getting jealous. If you're chilling at the bar, talking to another woman or simply enjoying yourself she's going to know your the catch. Allow her to be independent, it shows how confident you are that your the best choice in the room with an abundance mentality.

There is nothing more motivating that some diminishing item you want. Bear that in mind when encouraging independence because you'll be that diminishing item, that she wants.

Thinking of testing it out? Drop me a comment.