2 Things That Women Really Hate About Men

29 September 2009
Posted in Dating 101

The aim of this post is to identify and understand 2 things that women really hate about men. Basically the 2 things are a weak sense of reality and seeking validation.

1. Women Hate Men who Seek Validation

I'm sure you've heard this point before, but seeking validation is a little boys game. Women don't want boys, they want men - therefore the act of seeking validation for your actions only encourages women to use and abuse you.

The perfect example would definitely have to be the stereotype of the 'geek'. A geek would go out of his way to seek validation for his lifestyle or possessions. He'd actively make a woman accept his lifestyle and accept his way of doing things by seeking her validation. Which to her seems incredibly needy and unattractive.

How to cure an attitude were you seek validation? = DON'T SEEK IT! Be happy with you, your life and everything you own. You don't need to validate anything of yourself to anyone - if they don't accept you, it's their problem. You want to make sure you validate your own life, then that's all that matters.

2. Women Hate Men With a Weak Sense of Reality

A man with a weak sense of reality is basically a man who cannot think for himself. This point kind of rolls in from the previous point on seeking validation but takes it to a whole new level.

As a man, women expect you to have a firm grip on your life, basically - for you to know what's happening. That's one of the greatest attraction points because women need to know you can handle your life before they can even consider having sex with you.

A great example would be an emotional type or a 'mammy's boy'. I'm sure you're already seeing images flying around in your mind about how a mommy's boy has a low self-esteem and a weak sense of reality and I'm sure you probably know some guy I'm referring to.

Anyone who thinks for themselves and questions certain beliefs, structures and social enforcement has a strong sense of reality and is seen as a high status individual worthy of leadership. That's where you want to be. Especially if you feel a weak sense of reality is what's keeping you single.

The perfect way to cure a weak sense of reality is to begin being assertive and confident about who you are and what you like. If someone has a go at you for your type of a music, be assertive and tell them that they're entitled to their opinion but you think it's bollocks.

Women find assertive men who have a strong sense of reality very, very attractive, if that isn't you - 16 laws that'll get you that girl can help you out.